Stop "Half-Apping It"
Stop "Half-
Apping It"
If mindless, endless swiping on the apps isn't working for you, try a different approach. DateSpot is the first platform that makes you eligible to receive free match options from an entire network of professional matchmakers.
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Let Love Find You
DateSpot allows you to find a truly compatible partner by allowing you to be a candidate for the successful, reliable, and relationship-minded clients of over 90 vetted matchmaking companies.
It's nothing like our dedicated pay-per-match matchmaking in terms of service or match volume, but it's a great option for people who are not ready to pay for matches...and there's nothing else like it.
Why Connect To Matchmakers?
Common Goal
Matchmaking clients are like-minded people who are ready for more than endless profile swiping
Compatibility
Professionals assess long-term compatibility way beyond what the apps or meeting people out can do
Privacy
You're visible only to matchmakers, and your name/email only shared once you approve contact
How Is It Free?
Our partner matchmakers are looking for the right matches for their paying clients, and they pay for an intro to you that you approve.
When you want to connect with a matchmaker, there is no obligation to join their network. You just agree to talk with them so they can confirm a match.
How Does It Work?
Create an Account
Fill out a fun and interesting questionnaire that no other singles are ever able to view. There's no need to try to perfect how to "sell" yourself since the matchmakers do that for you!
Wait for a Match...Or Book a Call
When a DateSpot matchmaker or partner matchmaker identifies you as a potential match for one of their clients, we reach out to check in about your current status. We only connect you to a partner when you're single at that time. The matchmaker may want to see what you think of their client's profile before connecting. You can book a deep-dive call if you want a proactive review.
Get an Intro
If it's a connection to a partner's client, we'll intro you so the matchmaker can set up a call to get to know you better and confirm a match. Your DateSpot account provides a lot of info, but some partners request more. You'll receive a complementary membership with them.
Meet for a Date
The matchmaker may plan the date or have you and your match do it, depending on their own unique process. If it's a meetup with another DateSpot member, you plan it yourselves. A video call is suggested if distance is involved.
Share Feedback
After the first date, please give your feedback via our form so we can pass along what's important to our client and iterate with both of you if needed. If it's a partner's client, pass the feedback directly to them. The matchmaker can help determine if a second date should happen.
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Our Partner Matchmakers
Member Testimonials
"I can’t recommend Carla and the DateSpot team enough. Carla is a pleasure to work with, and DateSpot’s pool of candidates is impressive — deep and high-quality. Carla is passionate, innovative, and methodical. She quickly understood exactly what I was looking for and recommended several high-caliber profiles in no time. I am now dating someone Carla introduced me to, and things are looking very promising!"
“What a wonderful experience it is to work with Carla. Her approach to matchmaking is like a breath of fresh air. She is very well researched, and her questions require deep reflection. She does an enormous amount of homework before presenting a candidate to you. You'll see Carla goes above and beyond to prepare you and your match before a meeting. Highly recommended!”
"Carla took the time to genuinely know me as a friend prior to setting me up with someone. Luckily, soon after, the first match she sent me was a success! I am now happily married to the love of my life and couldn’t thank her enough. She officiated our wedding, and will stay a lifelong friend."
"DateSpot is easy & effective! Brilliant business model, and it really works - my first date turned out to be a way better match than Bumble or Hinge delivered in more than two years of online dating. And we're now married!"
Want More Matches?
The Candidate route is passive and allows you to only meet paying clients, which are just 15% of our members. The average Candidate receives just two match options per year. If you want more matches for a better chance of success, you can become a Client.
With our matchmaking tier, we focus on your search and you can meet anyone in the database, in addition to accessing the members of partners based on who they recommend when we reach out.
Our proactive matchmaking is affordable for the average professional. Beyond the initial video call for $195, you only pay when there is mutual interest in meeting based on profiles with photos.
View the matchmaking page for more details.
What's The Difference In Member Types?
We offer two tiers to suit your budget and needs.
Our proactive matchmaking service is for clients, while candidates don't get any proactive searching & have limited match options.
Eligible to Meet Paying Members
Our clients & partner clients (options are few & far between)
Discounts To Our Favorite Products & Services
For photo shoots, personal styling, relationship advising, wines & more
Eligible to Meet Non-Paying Members
85% of our members, plus non-paying members of partners
Dedicated Proactive Search
We search for you until we find success
Video Call Candidate Vetting
By request if someone has not been met with
2 Month Check-In Call
Discuss the search & any next steps
Outreach To Partner Network
To see if they have any great options
