Our Mission
For everyone to become and project the best version of themself, and find lasting love with a truly compatible partner.
What Do We Stand For?
Efficiency
Singles don't waste time browsing, messaging or dealing with fake profiles. Matchmakers quickly hone in on the right matches.
Compatibility
We are fanatics about pairing people so they truly last, based on relationship data we already know plus our own continuous testing.
Inclusiveness
We welcome all people, as long as they're open to a serious relationship. Anyone can sign up and be eligible to be matched.
Transparency
We have set pricing, share the names of our partner companies, display real couples on our site, and always tell the truth.
Innovation
We continue to develop the latest tech to help pair people best, from advanced filters to a helpful matching algorithm.
Team
Carla Swiryn
Carla combined her ten years of marketing, tech, and client service experience (mainly at Google) and six years as a professional matchmaker before creating DateSpot in 2019. She thought there must be a better way for matchmakers to do their job, and for singles to have a better experience than the apps and existing matchmaking.
She has the pleasure of running and growing the business, doing 1:1 consultations, fielding match requests from matchmakers, and doing all the matching between DateSpot members.
She lives in the world's innovation hub of Silicon Valley, where she was born and raised. She has also enjoyed living in Colorado, Florida, Spain, Brazil, and India.
Carla can personally relate to the dating struggle -- she was 40 when she finally found her amazing husband, Greg. They have a daughter, Ava, who lights up their lives. Given Ava's kindness, intelligence, and mental strength, Carla sees major potential for her to join the DateSpot team, but she promises to let Ava make the call!
Nicole Musap
Nicole is a certified dating coach who is highly skilled at balancing empathy with directness. She has a background in matchmaking, including matching our own clients. We love referring people to her for advice, especially to overcoming subconscious or conscious blocks that prevent them from maintaining a healthy relationship.
She is a published author whose highly acclaimed personal development book delves into overcoming trauma and self-defeating behaviors. She also has an e-book about The Power of Your Voice.
Grounded in a deep sense of spirituality, Nicole emphasizes the values of kindness, love, personal growth, and positivity.
In addition to coaching, she also runs DateSpot's four social media channels.
She is a devoted mother of three and resides in Charleston, SC.
Elise Braunschweiger
Inclusive dating coach at Conscious Connections who recruits exceptional members for our clientele.
Navin Ramachandran
Match.com's former COO who shares invaluable insight while empowering visionaries worldwide through Kanthari.
Greg Guarnay
Carla's husband also helps with the business, armed with an MBA from UCLA and a VP role at an AI-based software startup.
Founder's Letter:
The DateSpot Story
Most people don't grow up wanting to be a matchmaker, and I was one of them. The career wasn't presented as a viable option - at least not to me in the CA Bay Area. Advertising sounded fun, lucrative, and creative, so I pursued it. I worked as a copywriter developing ideas for print and radio ads, worked at Google for seven years creating and optimizing digital ads, and then ran my own online ad agency.
In 2013, my friend mentioned that someone was looking for help building her matchmaking startup. Thinking it could be an interesting side gig, I decided to help out with events and recruiting candidates part-time. After a few months, I realized that I was more excited to work on this other company than my own, so I shifted fields and became their first hired matchmaker.
I enjoyed growing their Bay Area member base from essentially zero to over 10,000 over five years. Even better - I successfully matched up multiple couples who would go on to get married - the youngest was in their twenties, and the oldest was in their fifties.
I loved it, but entrepreneurship is addicting. I started to think about allowing singles a fresh option for singles, that would also help matchmakers in a unique way. So I explored it, without an MBA, a co-founder, or any outside funding. DateSpot was founded in December 2019, focused on free matchmaking. In 2022 we added new services beyond matchmaking and expanded the geography to effectively match people nationwide (and even accept people internationally).
I bring my experience in marketing analytics to the matching process, being more data-driven than most matchmakers. I break up many answers to questions in singles onboarding into more options than most dating services have in order to pair people better. I continue to test many dimensions that could be measures of compatibility to bring fresh insight to the public.
There's no perfect algorithm for matching, but we can strive to get as much important data as possible to get close. We look at physical attraction, common goals, overlapping interests, lifestyle habits, being on the same “wavelength”, and a balance in energy. You don’t want to date yourself! I took this to heart and soon after founding my company, met my own amazing life partner.
My wish for you is that however you find love, you do find it. I also hope that you love yourself deeply as much as anyone else and understand its important role in attraction. While we’re all independent beings fully capable of living and thriving alone, and moments of singledom can be fun and healing, life is even better shared with someone else.
