Pay-Per-Match Matchmaking For open Relationships
Are you looking for non-monogamous love or an additional long-term relationship? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members who are flexible for open or closed group relationships - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
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Are you looking for non-monogamous love or an additional long-term relationship? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members who are flexible for open or closed group relationships - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
create your accountBenefits of Matchmaking
Common Goal
We can suss out what people really think & do to pair you with the right match(es).
Compatibility
Professionals assess long-term compatibility across a ton of dimensions.
Privacy
Members can't access each other, and we selectively send profiles for approval.
Targeting
We can identify people who aren't yet into ENM but are open to exploring it.
Time Saving
Online dating and meeting people out is time-consuming - and you're busy.
Location Expansion
Apps center around one location, while we make expansion to other areas easy.
What Is DateSpot?
DateSpot is a revolutionary pay-per-match matchmaking company that works with people of all types - whether monogamous or not.
Traditional matchmaking companies don't take on ENM clients because their networks cater only to monogamous individuals, so they can't justify their normal rates or deliver enough candidates. The few poly-focused matchmakers out there are great, but pricey, and don't offer flexible terms.
DateSpot is different. We have a wide network of people interested in finding a primary or secondary partner for a long-term open relationship - AND affordable. It's the easy way to find other open-minded people like yourself.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We use our unique partner network of 500+ companies to expand your match options.
Per-Match Pricing
No huge upfront fee. After a one-time $299 call, pay only per connection. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share at least four recent photos to both people, ensuring mutual attraction.
Who Is Matching Me?
Meet Carla Guarnay, DateSpot's Founder and Matchmaker with over 12 years of experience (since 2014). Having worked at Google optimizing ads for 7 years, she's adept at marketing (in this case, you), strategizing for each client, leveraging tech, and ensuring matched expectations from an ad/profile to a landing page/date.
Carla is a wife, mom and ENM ally who loves to play tennis and board games. She created the industry's Matchmaker Directory (so she's especially well-connected) and serves as the Product Advisor for SmartMatchApp, the #1 matchmaking CRM.
Carla grew up in Silicon Valley, inherently extremely open-minded and exposed to one of the nation's largest communities of poly and open individuals. Carla found a need to help the poly community based on demand for a private, more in-depth service.
Unlike traditional services that separate sales people from matchmakers, your entire process is handled directly by Carla, for a consistent, expert-led experience from start to finish.
Relationship Types
We do work with many people who want long-term monogamy, but we're completely inclusive and accept people who want any open, honest & equitable relationship type:
Sourcing Techniques
- Personal Network
Leveraging our friends in the community - Online Groups
Related Facebook groups trust us with referrals - Industry Partners
Reaching out to other matchmakers & clubs - Friend Referrals
Members refer friends they know could use help - Matchmaker Referrals
Other companies send us folks they don't service - Member Connections
We can send your profile to leverage their networks
Pricing
- Eligible to Meet Anyone We See Fit
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- ID Verification
- Background Checks By Request
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Outreach To Poly Individuals Who Can Help
ENM Resources
Want to learn more about ethical non-monogamy?
Check out this helpful info.
Books
Podcasts & Videos
Websites
Reddit Community
Video Consultation
If you'd like to work with us, let's talk about your search to get to know you and what you're looking for so we can make the best matches.
You'll meet with a DateSpot Matchmaker over a 45 minute video call for $299.
Ideally, you'll create your account first so we can assess whether we have enough potential matches for you even before the call.
We look forward to talking soon!