Pay-Per-Match Matchmaking For open Relationships
Are you looking for non-monogamous love or an additional long-term relationship? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members who are flexible for open or closed group relationships - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
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What Is DateSpot?
DateSpot is a revolutionary pay-per-match matchmaking company that works with people of all types - whether monogamous or not.
Traditional matchmaking companies don't take on ENM clients because their networks cater only to monogamous individuals, so they can't justify their normal rates or deliver enough candidates. The few poly-focused matchmakers out there are great, but pricey, and don't offer flexible terms.
DateSpot is different. We have a wide network of people interested in finding a primary or secondary partner for a long-term open relationship - AND affordable. It's the easy way to find other open-minded people like yourself.
Benefits of Matchmaking
Common Goal
We can suss out what people really think & do to pair you with the right match(es).
Compatibility
Professionals assess long-term compatibility across a ton of dimensions.
Privacy
Members can't access each other, and we selectively send profiles for approval.
Targeting
We can identify people who aren't yet into ENM but are open to exploring it.
Time Saving
Online dating and meeting people out is time-consuming - and you're busy.
Location Expansion
Apps center around one location, while we make expansion to other areas easy.
Who Is Matching Me?
DateSpot's Founder, Carla Guarnay, has been a professional matchmaker since 2014 and started the company in 2019.
She was born and raised in Silicon Valley - a place with a rich history of openness and people pushing the boundaries of the norm - and lives there now with her husband and daughter.
Carla found a need to help the poly community based on demand for a private, more in-depth service.
She is happy to listen to your story and desires to help you reach your relationship goals.
Relationship Types
We do work with many people who want long-term monogamy, but we're completely inclusive and accept people who want any open, honest & equitable relationship type:
- Polyamory
- Open relationship
- Equal triad
- ENM marriage
- Polyfidelity
- Relationship anarchy
- Swinging couple
- Spouse open to a fling
- Closed V
Testimonials
I need a woman to be open-minded sexually, at least somewhat kinky, and open to the idea of being with others if we don't fulfill all our needs. DateSpot is proactively targeting candidates in a creative way for me that I wouldn't be able to do myself.
I'm so happy that DateSpot is accepting of people who don't fit into the traditional relationship structures and can focus on them.
I am non-monogamous, but I'm looking for someone to be very focused on and have children with. The logistics of finding a primary partner suitable for me are complicated. I love how DateSpot makes it easier and does that searching for me.
Sourcing Techniques
- Personal Network
Leveraging our friends in the community - Online Groups
Related Facebook groups trust us with referrals - Industry Partners
Reaching out to other matchmakers & clubs - Friend Referrals
Members refer friends they know could use help - Matchmaker Referrals
Other companies send us folks they don't service - Member Connections
We can send your profile to leverage their networks
Pricing
- Eligible to Meet Anyone We See Fit
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- ID Verification
- Background Checks By Request
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Outreach To Poly Individuals Who Can Help
ENM Resources
Want to learn more about ethical non-monogamy?
Check out this helpful info.
Books
Podcasts & Videos
Websites
Reddit Community
Video Consultation
If you'd like to work with us, let's talk about your search to get to know you and what you're looking for so we can make the best matches.
You'll meet with a DateSpot Matchmaker over a 45 minute video call for $299.
Ideally, you'll create your account first so we can assess whether we have enough potential matches for you even before the call.
We look forward to talking soon!