Pay-Per-Match Jewish Matchmaking
Are you "in the tribe", want a life partner with similar values, and tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
get matched
Are you "in the tribe", want a life partner with similar values, and tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
get matched
Elevated Jewish Matchmaking
Dating online is a mess. It's exhausting, full of fake accounts, ghosting, minimal info, and people who treat it all like a never-ending game. Matchmaking is different as it's private, intentional, and provides much more info than the apps can. Typically matchmaking is expensive and all paid upfront. But with DateSpot, we make matchmaking affordable and completely pay-as-you-go.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We use our unique partner network of 500+ companies to expand your match options.
Per-Match Pricing
No huge upfront fee. After a one-time $299 call, pay only per connection. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share at least four recent photos to both people, ensuring mutual attraction.
Our Members





DateSpot members vary widely in age, location, and how important their faith is to them. If you want someone who cares about their culture, we can filter for that. Our Jewish members generally embody the authenticity, intelligence, education, and sense of humor inherent in the heritage tradition.
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Outreach To Partners
As part of our unique model, we partner with many companies that have access to our database and can identify you as a potential match for their paying members. When you're our Client, we can also proactively reach out to them, including the Jewish-specific ones, to ask who they have in their databases, giving them a commission incentive for a referral. This means you can get matches from them for a fraction of the cost if you were a client of theirs directly.

Who Is Matching Me?
Meet Carla Guarnay, DateSpot's Founder and a Silicon Valley-based matchmaker with over 12 years of experience (since 2014). Having worked at Google optimizing ads for 7 years, she's adept at marketing (in this case, you), strategizing for each client, leveraging tech, and ensuring matched expectations from an ad/profile to a landing page/date.
Carla is a wife and mom who loves to play tennis and board games. She created the industry's Matchmaker Directory (so she's especially well-connected) and serves as the Product Advisor for SmartMatchApp, the #1 matchmaking CRM.
Carla and her husband are both culturally Jewish and have deep respect for the values and traditions.
Unlike traditional services that separate sales people from matchmakers, your entire process is handled directly by Carla, for a consistent, expert-led experience from start to finish.
Testimonials
“It’s been a pleasure working with Carla and DateSpot! Carla is professional, personable and genuinely cares about finding her clients their forever person. She has a way of making her clients feel at ease and open up about what they’re really looking for in a relationship. Her creativity and use of technology also sets her apart from other matchmakers."
“What a wonderful experience it is to work with Carla. Her approach to matchmaking is like a breath of fresh air. She is very well researched, and her questions require deep reflection. She does an enormous amount of homework before presenting a candidate to you. You'll see Carla goes above and beyond to prepare you and your match before a meeting. Highly recommended!”
Thank you for all your help! This is an amazing resource of singles. I just wish I had found you earlier!
Pricing

- Eligible to Meet Anyone We See Fit
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- ID Verification
- Background Checks By Request
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Online Recruiting In Your Location
Let The Journey Begin!
We look forward to helping you find success!





