Pay-Per-Match Jewish Matchmaking

Are you "in the tribe", want a life partner with similar values, and tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.

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EFFICIENT & EFFECTIVE

Elevated Jewish Matchmaking

Dating online is a mess. It's exhausting, full of fake accounts, ghosting, minimal info, and people who treat it all like a never-ending game. Matchmaking is different as it's private, intentional, and provides much more info than the apps can. Typically matchmaking is expensive and all paid upfront. But with DateSpot, we make matchmaking affordable and completely pay-as-you-go.

How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?

Wider Reach

We use our unique partner network of 500+ companies to expand your match options.

Per-Match Pricing

After a $299 consult, if we move forward, pay only per approved connection. Opt out anytime.

Not Blind Dates

We share at least four recent photos to both people, ensuring mutual attraction.

1000+

Jewish members

30+

Data points shared per profile

83%

Of members want a second date with their match

Our Members

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DateSpot members vary widely in age, location, and how important their faith is to them. If you want someone who cares about their culture, we can filter for that. And all of our Jewish members strive to embody the authenticity, intelligence, education, and sense of humor inherent in the heritage tradition.

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Outreach To Partners

As part of our unique model, we partner with over 500 companies that have access to our database and can identify you as a potential match for their paying members. When you're our Client, we can also proactively reach out to them, including the Jewish-specific ones, to ask who they have in their databases, giving them a commission incentive for a referral. This means you can get matches from them for a fraction of the cost if you were a client of theirs directly!

talk with a matchmaker

Our Founder, Carla Guarnay, is an expert matchmaker who has been matching professionally since 2014...and she and her husband Greg are both proud cultural modern Jews. Talk with Carla for guidance and clarity about your search. It's a fun, power-packed 45 min. video call where you'll cover your relationship history, preferences and criteria, questions beyond the account, review photos, and talk next steps.

The call is $299, required to become a Client and encouraged for everyone. She looks forward to meeting and helping to match you!

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Testimonials

Gay dating is tough when you're serious because it's so much of a hookup culture. DateSpot makes it easy to find someone who really wants a relationship.