Get Actual Matches That Are Private, Curated, Affordable & Not Blind
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Pay-Per-Match Matchmaking
Quality professional matchmaking doesn't need to cost a lot or be pretentious. With DateSpot, you pay as you go. Pricing is reasonable, transparent, and the same for everyone. This is how all matchmaking should be. So go ahead, let us find your diamond in the rough...for less.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We can access over 1 million people through our network by requesting options and sharing a portion of your match fee.
Per-Match Pricing
Instead of a huge upfront cost, pay just for the consultation and then when two people want to meet. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share profiles with 4+ recent photos to both people, ensuring mutual attraction. We even include video when available!
How Does It Work?
Create an Account
Fill out a fun & interesting questionnaire. No need to perfect how to "sell" yourself since our approach is fact-based. We also pinpoint and highlight what we like about you. You also get a handbook with dating tips and resources.
Deep-Dive Video Call
Do a 45-min. video call with us so we can get to know you, review photos, clarify the search, and match you best. We'll send you your "sharable profile" within 5 days of the call so you know exactly what info and photos we're using.
We Send Any Curated Matches
We save you time by sending you people who we've confirmed are single, a great fit, and already interested in you. Matches can be sent one at a time so you can focus on each person, or we can send a set of 10+ through Match Previews ($399 optional add-on).
Confirm Or Reject The Matches
Whether doing the standard process or Match Previews, you'll tell us who you want to meet. There's no pressure to say yes to anyone. Pay via credit card or Zelle - you're never automatically charged. We'll intro you via text. You plan an in-person or video call date, based on mutual preference and if distance is involved.
Share Feedback
After the first date, please give your feedback via our quick form so we know where you stand and can iterate from there if needed. We can help determine if a second date should happen. The feedback you get from any dates can be illuminating and super helpful for the future with that person or another.
Pricing
- Eligible to Meet Anyone We See Fit
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- Video Call Vetting or ID Checks
- Background Checks By Request
- 2 Month Check-In Call
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Exclusive Resource Library PDFs
- Discounts on Optional Partner Services (Photo Shoots, Styling, Coaching etc.)
Specific Matchmaking Types
We effectively work with many different types of individuals. Unlike traditional matchmaking companies that focus on exclusivity and elitism, we're an inclusive program.
Here are examples of the groups we service:
- Black singles
- Christian singles
- Gay singles
- Indian singles
- Jewish singles
- LDS singles
- Lesbian singles
- LGBTQ+ singles
- Muslim singles
- Senior singles
- Spiritual singles
- Younger singles
Deep-Dive Video Call
Let's talk about your specific search so we can get to know you and provide the best matches!
For $299, meet with Carla Swiryn, a Silicon Valley-based matchmaker with over 10 years of experience, having started in 2014. You'll meet over a power-packed 45 minute video call. The call is required to move forward - and is painless, we promise.
How We Match Members
We are extremely thoughtful about how we match individuals, combining research, tech and intuition. We collect a lot of data about members to efficiently identify compatibility.
We believe that your match is within 15 years and use that as a max range. We also think your match should balance you in personality and energy.
Here is some more of what we take into account:
- Personal TraitsWe can filter for any of the specific attributes we ask about in onboarding.
- EducationSimilar levels are common in couples, but we ask how important it is to you.
- Drinking habitsDrinking “socially” is too general. We break it down into five dimensions.
- Drug habitsFrequency of use & what you’re open to in a partner, broken down by types.
- Smoking habitsCigarette use is often a dealbreaker, so knowing this is crucial.
- Fitness levelHow frequently someone works out helps determine whether lifestyles align.
- PetsPets are a part of one's family and could be a major issue.
- Eating habitsAre you especially health-conscious or do you have any special diet?
- WorldviewOptimism vs. practicality, stability vs. adventure, etc.
- ValuesWhat do you prioritize in your life - independence, family time, ambition, etc.
- InterestsThere should be some overlap, and we can filter for any hobbies you love.
- Religious viewsHow do you identify, how do you practice, and how important is alignment?
- Political affiliationWhat do you identify with politically, and how important is alignment?
- Love languagesHow people show they care through the 5 Love Languages is a factor as well.
- Family ClosenessHow close someone is to their parents and/or siblings.
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Testimonials
"DateSpot is easy & effective! Brilliant business model, and it really works - my first date turned out to be a way better match than Bumble or Hinge delivered in more than two years of online dating. And we're now married!"
"I’ve been so impressed with Carla, her team and approach. I’d recommend DateSpot to all my single friends, male and female, who are looking for a new way to meet eligible matches. Carla has developed a cool new dating 'mousetrap'!"
It was a breath of fresh air speaking with you today. You are a good egg and a hard worker! You're really changing the dating world for the better.
“It’s been a pleasure working with Carla and DateSpot! Carla is professional, personable and genuinely cares about finding her clients their forever person. She has a way of making her clients feel at ease and open up about what they’re really looking for in a relationship. Her creativity and use of technology also sets her apart from other matchmakers."
“I can’t say enough wonderful things about Carla! I’ve known her for several years and am always impressed by her poise, knowledge, compassion, eye for detail, connections, and kind heart. DateSpot is a fantastic community of exceptional professionals looking for that special someone. If you’re looking for love, Carla can help. She has an extensive reach and is well respected amongst her peers. She truly wants people to find their partner as well as to grow throughout their journey. Thank you Carla!”
"I cannot recommend Carla highly enough as a matchmaker. I've seen a couple other services advertised online and gone on dates with their clients, and I can say with confidence that the quality of the service Carla provides is in a league far and away above the others. I felt like she not only took a great deal of care to understand me, what I'm looking for, and why -- both in the beginning and ongoing -- but also that she is insightful and talented in actually achieving that understanding."
“The Matchmaker To The Matchmakers”
We want the best for you. If we think you'd be better suited to work with another matchmaking company, we're happy to refer you. There's no obligation. We want you to benefit from our experience working with hundreds of matchmaking companies and our intimate knowledge of the industry. You may even want to work with both of us to maximize your chances.
If you'd like an intro to a couple recommended companies, email us at support@datespot.love with what you're looking for, any companies you've worked with, and your budget, or book a 45 min. video call ($299) for an even more customized approach. We look forward to meeting you!