Pay-Per-Match LGBTQ+ Matchmaking
Are you queer, want a life partner, and tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
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Elevated Queer Matchmaking
Dating online is a mess. It's exhausting, full of fake accounts, ghosting, minimal info, and people who treat it all like a never-ending game. Matchmaking is different as it's private, intentional, and provides much more info than the apps can. Typically matchmaking is expensive and all paid upfront. But with DateSpot, we make matchmaking affordable and completely pay-as-you-go.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We use our unique partner network of 500+ companies to expand your match options.
Per-Match Pricing
No huge upfront cost. After a $299 consult, pay only per approved connection. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share profiles with 4+ recent photos to both people, ensuring mutual attraction.
Our Members
DateSpot members vary widely in age, from 18 to 92! We're based in the San Francisco Bay Area, but our members are nationwide. They tend to be politically liberal, college educated, successful professionals who are flexible, easy to talk to, well-adjusted, and are already great on dates.
We welcome everyone to join our database for potential matching.
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Partner Collaboration
As part of our unique model, we have strong partnerships with companies that have access to our database and can identify you as a potential match for their paying members.
When you're our Client, we can also reach out to them to ask who they have in their databases, giving them a commission incentive for a referral.
We can also refer you to our favorite LGBTQ specific matchmaking company if that's your preference or if we think you're better suited with them.
talk with a matchmaker
Talk with expert Matchmaker and DateSpot's Founder, Carla Guarnay, for guidance and clarity about your search. It's a fun, power-packed 45 min. video call where she'll get to know you and make any customized recommendations based on your needs. You'll cover your relationship history, preferences and criteria, questions to get to know you, and review photos.
The call is $299, and required to become a Client. She looks forward to meeting and matching you!
Testimonials
Thank you for all your help! This is an amazing resource of singles. I just wish I had found you earlier!
I was super impressed with the four men that were presented to me and the three I met. Still dating the last one!
Gay dating is tough when you're serious because it's so much of a hookup culture. DateSpot makes it easy to find someone who really wants a relationship.
Pricing
- Eligible to Meet Anyone We See Fit
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- Optional ID Verification
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Online Recruiting In Your Location
Let the journey begin!
We look forward to helping you find success!