Dating Resource Library
Here is our thoughtfully chosen collection of trusted coaches, experts, and services to support you at every stage of your dating and relationship experience, from getting in the right headspace to maintaining a healthy, lasting partnership.
Whether you're single, ethically non-monogamous, or in an exclusive relationship, these are people and resources we genuinely trust and regularly recommend to our matchmaking clients.
In many cases, we've also secured a special discount for our friends — just mention DateSpot when you connect.
DATESPOT RESOURCES
Guide To Successful Dating
Get tips for early dates, video call dates, meeting people out and about, books & podcasts we recommend, matchmaking, how to set criteria & more. Available to everyone, even if you're not a member!
Self-Love Mini-Course
Finding love starts with loving yourself. Practice these exercises to build confidene and nurture your most important lifelong relationship - with yourself.
DATING ADVICE DOWNLOADS
Mindful Dating 101
This fun on-demand 12 module course offers everything you need to master online dating. Get a profile writing guide, dating workbook, closet cleanse guide, access to the SMP Facebook group, & much more!
DIY Profile Kit
This handy guide from Style My Profile teaches you how to be an online dating expert. Learn how to write an awesome bio, take & choose photos, and start engaging conversations so your efforts pay off!
Inner Game Power
Dan Silverman has been a coach teaching men how to avoid the "friend zone" since 2006. Get his "Inner Game Power: Building Unstoppable Confidence with Women".
COACHING & SELF-IMPROVEMENT
MindValley
A leading digital self-transformation platform offering structured personal development courses, events and workshops led by global experts.
AML Coaching
Andrea is an integral coach who provides support during periods of transition in people's personal or professional lives. Her experience includes seven years in the dating space at Match, where she partnered with coaches to produce dating content in the app to enhance their experience.
Better Dating Services
Dan Silverman has been using his psychology, professional acting and theatre background to teach men technique on dating more effectively since 2006. His specialty is helping the "invisible nice guy" who gets friend-zoned. He also does in-field live 1:1 training and mock dates for valuable feedback.
Alexis Sclamberg
Alexis is a relationship and mindset coach, former attorney, and managing partner at a ventures group. She helps clients break old patterns, build self-trust, and show up more confidently in dating and relationships through emotional awareness and identity work.
Queer Conscious Connections
QCC creates a safe space to help LGBTQ singles feel less alone, more empowered and self-aware. Your coach, Elise, has a unique background as a professional matchmaker. She has incredible empathy, is easy to talk to, and works with individuals of all types and sexual orientations (she is queer herself). Packages are completely customizable.
PERSONAL STYLE & IMAGE CONSULTING
Amanda Styles L.A.
Amanda has been an esteemed Wardrobe Stylist for over a decade. She's knows for her innovative flair and expert eye for the perfect fit. She will help you establish your Signature Style to stand apart from the crowd. Services are in Los Angeles or she can travel for additional cost.
Victoria Hitchcock Style
With over 20 years of professional experience, Victoria is not just a stylist - she's an image maker. She does a 60-90 min. overall assessment with custom recommendations, including for clothing, hair, skin, personal training, and more so you look and feel your best.
Style Guide
Get awesome tips for maximizing your existing wardrobe and essential pieces for men and men from a top U.S. stylist.
DATE IDEAS
So Cards
This deck of 52 cards is the perfect way to "break the ice", set yourself apart, and create more meaningful conversations on any date. You'll get to know each other on a deeper level to build trust and intimacy faster.
Arthur Murray Dance Centers
A partner dance class makes for an awesome date, allowing you to let loose and get close. Learn almost any type of dance. With 300 studios worldwide, they have specialized classes for both singles and couples/daters.
Green Dream Tours
Full and half day tours of Napa and/or Sonoma showcasing the famous wines, delicious food, and spectacular scenery that make California's Wine Country so incredible.
BLOGS
The DateSpot Blog
Check out The Love Nest by DateSpot. Hear from our team as well as special guest writers about dating, relationships, and life. We don't post B.S..
Evan Mark Katz
This expert dating coach focused on helping women has offered free advice on his blog since 2006, which reached over 30 million readers.
The Date Mix
Actionable advice from today's top dating experts, trusted news sources, trending topics, and data science, published by Zoosk, an online dating site.
The OkCupid Blog
OkCupid was one of the first companies to collect and publish extensive online data research, and their longstanding blog has a ton of interesting data-driven content.
ARTICLES
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Singles Are Going Old School
Nicolle Monico's favorite articles, topics, and interviews of the "Unhinged" dating series so far.
