Pay-Per-Match Black Matchmaking
Are you tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
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Elevated Black Dating
Dating online is a mess. It's exhausting, full of fake accounts, ghosting, minimal info, and people who treat it all like a never-ending game. Matchmaking is different as it's private, intentional, and provides much more info than the apps can. Typically matchmaking is expensive and all paid upfront. But with DateSpot, we make matchmaking flexible and completely pay-as-you-go.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We use our unique partner network of 500+ companies to expand your match options.
Per-Match Pricing
No huge upfront cost. After a $299 consult, pay only per approved connection. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share profiles with at least four recent photos, ensuring mutual attraction.
Our Members





DateSpot members vary widely in age, location, lifestyle, faith, politics, and ethnicity. If you want someone who is black or already interested in you based on ethnicity, we can filter for that. We care about helping everyone and advocating for equality and open-mindedness.
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Outreach To Partners
As part of our unique model, we partner with over 500 companies that have access to our database and can identify you as a potential match for their paying members. When you're our Client, we can also proactively reach out to them, including the black-specific ones, to ask who they have in their databases, giving them a commission incentive for a referral. This means you can get matches from them for a fraction of the cost if you were a client of theirs directly!

talk with a matchmaker
Talk with expert Matchmaker and DateSpot's Founder, Carla Guarnay, for guidance and clarity about your search. It's a fun, power-packed 45 min. video call where she'll get to know you and make any customized recommendations based on your needs. You'll cover your relationship history, preferences and criteria, questions to get to know you, and review photos.
The call is $299, and required to become a Client. She looks forward to meeting and matching you!
Testimonials
I need a woman to be open-minded sexually, at least somewhat kinky, and open to the idea of being with others if we don't fulfill all our needs. DateSpot is proactively targeting candidates in a creative way for me that I wouldn't be able to do myself.
I'm so happy that DateSpot is accepting of people who don't fit into the traditional relationship structures and can focus on them.
I am non-monogamous, but I'm looking for someone to be very focused on and have children with. The logistics of finding a primary partner suitable for me are complicated. I love how DateSpot makes it easier and does that searching for me.
Pricing

- Eligible to Meet Anyone We See Fit
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- ID Verification Options
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Online Recruiting In Your Location
Let the journey begin!
We look forward to helping you find success!