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Singles Resource Library

PUBLIC VERSION

If you're single, we've got your back. Find everything you could possibly want and need right here to get yourself prepared to find love, develop a healthy relationship, and make it last.
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DATING ADVICE DOWNLOADS

Guide To Successful Dating

Get tips for early dates, video call dates, meeting people out and about, books & podcasts we recommend, matchmaking, how to set criteria & more. Available to everyone, even if you're not a member!

Free For Everyone

Mindful Dating 101

This fun on-demand 12 module course offers everything you need to master online dating. Get a profile writing guide, dating workbook, closet cleanse guide, access to the SMP Facebook group, & much more!

$199, Members Get 20% Off

DIY Profile Kit

This handy guide from Style My Profile teaches you how to be an online dating expert. Learn how to write an awesome bio, take & choose photos, and start engaging conversations so your efforts pay off!

$49, Members Get 20% Off

Self-Love Mini-Course

Finding love starts with loving yourself. Practice these exercises to build confidene and nurture your most important lifelong relationship - with yourself.

Exclusive For All Members

Photo Optimization Guide

Discover how to optimize your dating and matchmaking profile photos to represent yourself best while staying authentic and representative of how you really look.

Exclusive For All Members

Inner Game Power

Dan Silverman has been a coach teaching men how to avoid the "friend zone" since 2006. Get his "Inner Game Power: Building Unstoppable Confidence with Women".

Exclusive For Subscribed Candidates

PERSONAL STYLE

Style Guide

Get awesome tips for maximizing your existing wardrobe and essential pieces for men and men from a top U.S. stylist.

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BLOGS

The DateSpot Blog

Check out The Love Nest by DateSpot. Hear from our team as well as special guest writers about dating, relationships, and life. We don't post B.S..

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Evan Mark Katz

This expert dating coach focused on helping women has offered free advice on his blog since 2006, which reached over 30 million readers.

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The Date Mix

Actionable advice from today's top dating experts, trusted news sources, trending topics, and data science, published by Zoosk, an online dating site.

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DatingAdvice.com

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The OkCupid Blog

OkCupid was one of the first companies to collect and publish extensive online data research, and their longstanding blog has a ton of interesting data-driven content.

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Global Dating Insights

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ARTICLES

6 Expert Tips For Better Dating in 2025

In Body+Soul
By Sarah Mitchell

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Don't Worry, You're Not 'Undatable'

In TIME
By Logan Ury

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8 Best 'Unhinged' Dating Stories of 2024

In San Diego Magazine
By Nicolle Monico

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Can The World's Top Breakup Coach Mend My Broken Heart?

In The Times
By Sophia Money-Coutts

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A Practical Guide To Modern Dating

In MarkManson.net
By Mark Manson

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Singles Are Going Old School

Nicolle Monico's favorite articles, topics, and interviews of the "Unhinged" dating series so far.

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PODCASTS

Dateable

By daters Yue Xu & Julie Krafchick

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Savage Lovecast

By author & journalist Dan Savage

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Modern Love

By NY Times host Anna Martin

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Dating Intentionally

By dating expert Talia Koren

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Why Won't You Date Me?

By Comedian Nicole Byer

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Where Should We Begin?

By Psychotherapist Esther Perel

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BOOKS

The 5 Love Languages

By Gary Chapman

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Attached

By Amir Levine

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The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work

By John Gottman & Nan Silver

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How To Not Die Alone

By Logan Ury

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Mating in Captivity

By Esther Perel

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Why Him? Why Her?

By Helen Fisher

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The Art of Online Dating

By Alyssa Dineen

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CONSULTATIONS

MATCHMAKING: DateSpot

Meet with Carla, DateSpot's Founder and a pro matchmaker since 2014. She'll get to know you, review your photos, & make any custom recommendations. 45 min. video call is $299.

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ONLINE DATING: SMP

Alyssa Dineen of Style My Profile has a solid niche as a long-time personal stylist and online dating specialist. Get a free consultation to learn about her 1:1 services.

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COACHING: The 528Hz Society

DateSpot's own Nicole Musap is a stellar life, dating and relationship advisor, former matchmaker, author, and mom. Chat to see if a session package is right for you.

Coming Soon!