Pay-Per-Match Matchmaking in NYC
Do you live in New York City and want a local life partner? Tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
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Are you person of faith who wants a life partner with similar values, and tired of swipes on apps going nowhere? Through DateSpot's state-of-the-art algorithm and filters, we can identify like-minded members - then add a personal touch, sharing their videos - to show you who people really are and lead to your most compatible match.
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Elevated New York City Dating
Dating online is a mess. It's exhausting, full of fake accounts, ghosting, minimal info, and people who treat it all like a never-ending game. Matchmaking is different as it's private, intentional, and provides much more info than the apps can. Typically matchmaking is expensive and all paid upfront. But with DateSpot, we make matchmaking affordable and completely pay-as-you-go.
We service the following areas and beyond:
- Manhattan
- Brooklyn
- Westchester
- Long Island
- Greenwich CT
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We use our unique partner network of 500+ companies to expand your match options.
Per-Match Pricing
No huge upfront fee. After a one-time $299 call, pay only per connection. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share profiles with at least four recent photos, ensuring mutual attraction.
Our Members
DateSpot members vary widely in age, location, and everything. If you want someone compatible in your area - or even willing to relocate there - we can filter for it.
Who Is Matching Me?
Meet Carla Guarnay, DateSpot's Founder and a Silicon Valley-based matchmaker with over 12 years of experience (since 2014). Having worked at Google optimizing ads for 7 years, she's adept at marketing (in this case, you), strategizing for each client, leveraging tech, and ensuring matched expectations from an ad/profile to a landing page/date.
Carla is a wife and mom who loves to play tennis and board games. She created the industry's Matchmaker Directory (so she's especially well-connected) and serves as the Product Advisor for SmartMatchApp, the #1 matchmaking CRM.
Unlike traditional services that separate sales people from matchmakers, your entire process is handled directly by Carla, for a consistent, expert-led experience from start to finish.
How Does It Work?
Create Your Account
Complete a fun and insightful questionnaire so we can understand your background, lifestyle, and preferences. This helps us identify deep-level compatibility among our members.
Get a Match Review (Or Wait For Free)
You can pay for a $49 Match Review, where we assess your match potential within our network. You’ll receive a personalized overview of your opportunities, including top Recommended Dates.
If you qualify to be a Client with 15+ potentials, we'll invite you to book a Match Strategy Call ($295) for optional dedicated support.
Otherwise, you can just join the database and wait for any future matches to be identified.
Select Who You're Interested In
If you get a Match Review, you select who you’d like to meet, if there's mutual interest. Those who pay for a Match Review receive one proactive search and ad hoc options after. Clients receive at least one Recommended Date per week for four months.
Whatever tier you're in, you always get a say in who you meet based on detailed profiles with photos. You only pay when there is mutual interest.
Meet & Share Feedback
We intro people via text for you to arrange the video or in person date, or we can coordinate for an add-on fee. Afterwards, share feedback via a quick form so we can refine with future matches if needed. We share relevant feedback to Clients to provide clarity and opportunities for growth.
How We Match Members
We are extremely thoughtful and efficient about how we match people, combining profile data, compatibility research, advanced tech, and personal intuition.
We know that most successful partnerships are within 15 years and use that as a max range. We also think your match should balance you in personality and energy.
Here is a partial list of what we take into account and can filter by:
- RelocationPeople who are open to moving to you anytime or eventually.
- EducationSimilar levels are common in couples, but we ask how important it is to you.
- Drinking habitsDrinking “socially” is too general. We break it down into five dimensions.
- Drug habitsFrequency of use & what you’re open to in a partner, even by type.
- Smoking habitsHow often you smoke cigarettes and what you're open to in a partner.
- Fitness levelHow frequently someone works out to help determine lifestyle alignment.
- PetsWhether someone has a dog and/or cat and how they feel about them.
- Eating habitsWhether you eat everything, are health-conscious, a vegetarian, etc.
- PersonalityTraits like intellectually curious, kind, growth-oriented, athletic, adventurous, etc.
- ValuesWhat do you prioritize in your life - independence, family time, ambition, etc.
- InterestsThere should be some overlap, and we can filter for any hobbies you love.
- Religious viewsHow do you identify, how do you practice, and how important is alignment?
- Political affiliationWhat you identify with politically and importance of alignment
- Love languagesWhich of the 5 Love Languages do you give and want to receive most.
- FamilyFamily-oriented, close with their birth family, froze their eggs, etc.
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Outreach To Partners
As part of our unique model, we partner with many companies that have access to our database and can identify you as a potential match for their paying members. When you're our Client, we can also proactively reach out to them, including the New York City-based ones, to ask who they have in their databases, giving them a commission incentive for a referral. This means you can get matches from them for a fraction of the cost if you were a client of theirs directly.
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Member Pricing
- Eligible To Meet Anyone In The Database
- Match Review Option ($49)
- Thorough Profiles With Multiple Photos
- ID Verification of Matches
- Video Clip Exchange Option
- Feedback From First Dates
- Everything Premium Candidates Get Plus...
- 4 Month Proactive Search
- Weekly Recommended Dates (4 Mo.)
- Partner Outreach To Acesss Their Members
Let the journey begin!
We look forward to helping you find a match!